Hi Jeff,
that all makes sense - I did wonder if you were in the USA and that was what caused the delay. I think Sandy covered most of it really, in that you should look at a slightly longer timeframe for dasatinib to work its magic. Depending on the blood testing frequency, something you may see in the near future is the WBC undershoot - while your body adapts to the meds reducing the WBC, the drugs work a little too well; I think the lower end of normal is 4k and i dropped down to 2.5k for 1-2 weeks and then bounced back to normal. It's nothing to worry about, just something to be aware of and discuss with your doc if it does happen.
As you're in the USA, have you seen this document?:
http://www.nccn.org/patients/guidelines/cml/index.html
I just had a quick look through and it has improved significantly since last time i looked (it was quite good before). I recommend reading the whole thing, but pay particular attention to pages 48-63, which outline suggested targets or guidelines for when you should hit treatment milestones - these are the national guidelines which your doctor will be assessing your progress against. You will notice the document talks in terms of 3,6 & 18 month milestones and this is the scale you will eventually start thinking in.
I know the early days are scary and you want reassurance by seeing a response - it's already dropped to 44k and I'm sure it will keep heading in the right direction; dasatinib is an excellent medication but, if for some reason it does not work for you, then there are other TKI drugs you can take which are equally effective.
I was 32 at diagnosis (diagnosed in the USA, now living in the UK) and I'm now coming up to my 4 four 'cancerversary'. I'm doing fine on the meds and don't let the CML hold me back. I'm on nilotinib and I found the side effects come and then go as my body learned to tolerate the medication - I hope your experience is similar or better.
I wish you well on your journey, particularly in the early days as you get used to your new circumstances and please ask any questions you may have.
Chris