Hello David,
I have not been on the site for quite a while, found it most useful when i needed information and support. Sandy was a star for me when i needed help.
I think it's right that you hear a success story with regards to Stem Cell transplants, so here is my story, but remember everyone is different, there are no golden rules, everyone does it differently.
I was diagnosed shortly after my 40th birthday nearly 4 years ago now. Started on the usual TKI's which went on for about a year. Non of them worked for me, and after about a year of not controlling the disease, transplant was mentioned. I personally had what they call a t315i mutation which stops the TKI's working.
Luckly my Sister was found to be a match and i was booked in for a transplant at the start of 2009. I was being treated in Birmingham by Charlie Craddock and his team. The transplant went well and after 4 weeks i was released. Things then went on a bit of a spiral with GVHD, I managed to manifest it in many places, when it finally moved into my liver and the truth is vertually a year after my transplant i was discharged from hospital into a hospice, the outlook was not good! However for whatever reason i am still here. I've been back to work since the start of this year and im looking forward to the rest of my life.
It has not been easy, but never give up. Take one day at a time, you can deal with it. Do not get to far ahead of yourself. Dont set any expectation apart that you are going to get better. There could be difficult times or you could relatively sail through it, As i said there is not set way of doing this. I think you have got to trust your doctors, i saw no point in agonising over decisions they are best qualified to make. Understand what is happening certainly, but you must trust there experience, nothing is absolutely certain, i am living proof of that.
So best of luck to you, if you want to speak then let me know.
Michael