Hi Andrew,
I had exactly your experience back in December 2014.
I'd been dxd in September 2014. I was just starting to think I was 'getting to grips' with having CML. I had a very positive consultant, my spleen, which had been enormous, had shrunk back down, and I felt healthy and pretty optimistic.
Then, a few days after being told all my regular bloods were normal, I got a phone call from my consultant calling me in to see him the next day. My first PCR had come in at 57% and it really knocked my confidence. I was suddenly scared again. Imatinib had failed me and wasn't the wonderdrug I'd been led to believe. Things started to look very uncertain again.
It took me a few weeks of reading much more around the subject, including a number of studies, and also this forum (thanks everyone!) to realise all was not lost.
When I read of the difficulties and experiences with CML that people have had, people who lived to tell those tales, I realised you never can tell what's going to happen.
I'm very lucky that Nilotinib has worked really well for me. Here I am 3 years later, feeling pretty healthy and in mr4.5.
I do totally understand where you are Andrew. I believe there a now 5 approved TKIs and between them they help the majority of people who take them. Of course, there are no guarantees in life, but I'd say there's a pretty good chance you'll find a TKI that works for you and get to to grips with your situation once more. Good luck.